Sunday, December 11, 2016

Time Fades Away



It will surprise no one that this post will use a Neil Young song as its vehicle.  Time Fades Away is a 1973 album recorded during the tour immediately succeeding the successful release of Harvest.  Time Fades Away serves as the title track of the first album in the famed Ditch Trilogy, a series of three albums with a grim shadow cast upon them due to the loss of a band member (more on that here).  The Trilogy contains some of my favorite Neil tunes.  The lyrics of the title song aren't as grim as others in this period of Neil.  You can hear a bit of desperation in his voice, but unlike the normal Ditch Trilogy feeling, this song really makes you want to stomp and dance a bit.  



The chorus of this song kept with me:

 

Son, don't be home too late.
Try to get back by eight
Son, don't wait
till the break of day
'Cause you know
how time fades away.
Time fades away
You know how time fades away.

I think the song is recognizing how easy it is to lose track of time when you’re having fun.  Turning 34 has only proved this out for me in real life.  As a 34 year-old celebrating every day of his Puckett Year, I can’t believe I’ve gotten this old, this fast.  And as I look back, all the fun of the last 16 years or so certainly has been a factor in time moving at record speed.

I do not match the picture “22-year-old Matt” might have dreamed up for himself.   Not much has changed.  Preferences, maybe.  But at my core is the same guy: deeply caring, sometimes a bit bombastic, restless.  I think the people we engage with remain the same at their core, too.  As time fades, it’s nice to know that we, ourselves, do not fade (or at least we diminish at a much slower pace).  As a direct result, our relationships stay true for a long time as well.  I think that’s why we’re all here writing. 

I did not know Kirby Puckett.  I don’t know whether he stayed the same person over the years his star rose, and subsequently fell.  Unlike most of us, though, Kirby has a handful of amazing moments that captured us as young people.  And most likely, one of the first memories we have comes from Game 6 of the 1991 World Series.  I don’t know that any of us will have a moment so huge that millions of people remember us for it, whether we ever meet them or not.  So we have to travel a different path.  The content of our character and the connections we make that will leave an impression on others, day by day.  People will remember us based on hundreds of interactions, instead of one fantastic night.  Let's keep that in mind during our Puckett Year, and make every moment count.

Wednesday, November 23, 2016

The Twin(s) Caravan(s)

Baseball, like life, tends to be a game of chance.  A former collegiate pitcher once informed me that a hitter has about a half-second to react to a fastball being thrown at them.  That’s a half-second to decide if the location of the pitch is going to be a ball or a strike, determine the approximate speed the ball is traveling, and ultimately choose to swing at it or not.  No wonder a great batting average is often considered getting on base only a third of the time.  Of course, being successful at playing baseball is not just shear guesswork.  Skill and practice can obviously increase your likelihood of getting lucky at the plate or being in the right place at the right time on the field as line drive is hit right at you.  But sometimes you just get lucky, and I think the Chicago Cubs might agree.      

Many professional athletes can probably identify one or more chance opportunities that helped them make it to the big leagues, and Kirby Puckett is likely no different.  Despite being an All-American in high school, no colleges were interested in Puckett, and he went to work at a Ford Motor Plant installing carpet in Thunderbirds[1].  It wasn’t until he got laid off from his factory job that he was noticed by a college head coach, when he decided to attend a pro baseball tryout.  In college, he switched from third base to center field to get more playing time, and wasn’t noticed by any professional scouts until the summer of 1981.  The MLB was on strike at that time during the 1981 season, and Jim Rantz, the assistant farm director for the Minnesota Twins, went down to watch his son play in a summer collegiate league.  His son’s team happened to be playing against the team that Kirby was on, and at Rantz’s suggestion, the Twins picked Puckett with the third overall pick in the 1982 draft.  He made his professional debut on May 8, 1984, and three years later was helping the Twins win their first World Series title since relocating from Washington DC.      

1987 was a banner year for a few different reasons.  Of course, it was the first World Series won by the Twins.  A feat of historic proportions considering the team had a winning percentage of only .525.  Fortunately for the Twins there was only one other team in the AL West who finished above .500 that season.  To say that the seven-game series victory over the St. Louis Cardinals was an upset would be a bit of an understatement.  The 1987 series also made history as the first series to be played completely indoors and the first series where the home team won every game.  The 1987 playoffs also saw the creation of the “Homer Hanky”, a white hanky with red lettering that was waved voraciously by Twins fans during games, both in the stadium and those following along at home.

I don’t remember much of the 1987 World Series beyond the “Homer Hankies” (I was four at the time), but 1987 happened to be the model year[2] of the Dodge Caravan that my parents purchased to serve as our family vehicle.  My sister and I had successfully used the summer sun to melt crayons onto every exposed piece of backseat interior of our existing vomit-green Buick, and the Caravan, with its excessively large woodgrain “racing stripes” down the side, was deemed to be a suitable replacement.  The middle and back bench seats were easily large enough for children under 10 to prostrate horizontally, and rather dangerously, to sleep during long car rides – like the rare occasions we were able to go to a Twins game.  Beyond serving as my primary mode of transportation for more than a decade, this 1987 Dodge Caravan would play a major role in how I wound up where I am today.                           

While (presumably) lacking a Dodge Caravan of their own, the Twins Organization did have a recognizable “Caravan” of another sort.  It was a cross-state road trip during the off season, that was literally called the “Twins Caravan”.  It still exists to this day, and has been recognized as one of the longest running and most extensive “caravans” of any professional sports organization.  Essentially the caravan serves as a PR stunt by the team to engage the fan base outside of the Twin Cities metro, who can’t regularly get to games and spend copious amounts of money on tickets and concessions.  It would include appearances from some second-tier players – someone who hit in the 6-9 spots of the batting order or was one of the many middle relief pitchers, and typically a few retired players who were still involved in the organization – those who weren’t probably good enough to have the luxury of not needing to be interested in baseball after their retirement.  Autographs were signed, pictures were taken, souvenir bats/helmets/balls were handed out.  I can’t say for certain, but the odds are high, being the baseball fan that I was in my youth, that I attended one of the Twins Caravan stops in the “moderately small town” nearest to my “tiny small town” hometown.  I’m sure if I dig hard enough, I could probably find a picture of me with Chip Hale and Pedro Munoz, or someone else of their caliber.

As Frank eloquently pointed out in the opening post of this blog, the writers are a collection of men nearing the age of Kirby Puckett’s jersey number who all happened to cross paths while attending Saint John’s University, a small (but bigger than my hometown), all-guys school in the middle of nowhere in Central Minnesota.  To my knowledge, no one in this group had any prior connection to anyone else in the group before becoming “Johnnies”.  Yet over the course of our four years at Saint John’s our paths crossed in a manner that changed the dynamic of our relationship from classmate to acquaintance to friend.  Whether it was living on the same floor freshmen year, taking the same class or majoring in the same field, sharing a similar interest/ability in music, or playing the same intramural sport.  At some point, we all had initial encounters with each other, and I will often retrospectively consider the sheer amount of chance, or dare I even say luck, present in those interactions.  Despite being 15 years removed from our freshmen year of college, I can still recall in very vivid detail one of my first meaningful interactions with each one of the other writers who are a part of this project.  I would suspect that if they took some time to reminisce, they could probably do the same with each other.[3]

So, it seems fitting that my decision to enroll at Saint John’s happened, in my view, somewhat by chance, and with help from our 1987 Dodge Caravan.  During the last few months of my senior year of high school, when I should have been more concerned with finalizing my post-graduation plans, my Mom relegated me to exclusively driving the Caravan as punishment for some very teenage-like behavior[4].  For about a week, my Mom and I were not on speaking terms, which was a little strange because we were the only inhabitants of our house at the time.  One night, during the close of our silent treatment session, I signed the acceptance letter for the financial aid package from Saint John’s, and placed it on the kitchen counter where I knew she would see it in the morning.  My intentions were bizarre at best, as I seemed to sign the letter out of spite, even though I knew it was what my Mom wanted.  I wasn’t trying to appease her so she’d forgive me, I was more trying to give her what I thought she wanted and maybe she’d feel a tinge of guilt. 

The Caravan - "the van that cares"

Of course, trying to make my mom feel guilty was not my ultimate reasoning for eventually deciding to attend SJU.  My sister went to St. Ben’s, the all-women’s school that partnered with Saint John’s, so I was pretty familiar with the place.  No matter how much I tried to convince myself I wasn’t going to follow my sister to college, the place already kind of felt like home.  It was also the closest college I applied to, which would give me the most opportunities to see my then girlfriend (now wife), who had one more year of high school.  I do like to romanticize though that the “Caravan incident” was the tipping point in pushing me to make that final decision to attend SJU.

I have previously divulged in more detail in another blog that I infrequently update, how my experience at SJU has helped me to get to where I am today.  Seven years ago, my wife and I returned to the college town that is home to our alma mater on account of a job opportunity for her.  We decided to stick around when we found out we’d be adding offspring to our family, and plan on being here for the foreseeable future.  Despite being one of the last of the group to actually turn 34, I’m probably the one living the most “typical 34 year-old experience”.  One of the first to get married, the first to have kids, and the one with the most kids (three).  For the past two years, I’ve been a stay-at-home dad, spending a good chunk of my time piloting a, you guessed it, Dodge Grand Caravan (albeit a much newer model).  So, if you’ve followed along so far, being forced to drive a 1987 Dodge Caravan led me to attend Saint John’s, which has led me to driving a Dodge Caravan today by choice.

Frank’s comment that “the impact SJU has on young men is quite remarkable” is very poignant, as I know my time there had a profound impact on my life.  Much of that profoundness was courtesy of the gentlemen contributing to this blog.  They were the biggest reason my SJU experience was as transformative as it was – the people make the place.  And for my benefit, as each of our lives has taken its own course following graduation, the Johnnie support has continually flowed amongst each other.  Each of these guys has helped me become the person I am today because they have always been there for me.  Like any true teammate, they’ve encouraged and cheered me on.  They’ve helped point me in the right direction when I’ve gotten turned around.  They’ve called me out on my shit, and they’ve called on me for advice, even when it might seem glaringly obvious that I have nothing to offer.  They’ve valued my friendship, just as I have valued theirs.
 
So, when Frank talks about how impressed he is of the accomplishments of our cohort, and the fellow writers of the blog, I know that he is without hesitation including me too.  Even when our other classmates have climbed the ranks of prominence in careers both the public and private sphere, and my time is mostly spent doing laundry, cooking meals and changing diapers.  It’s humbling to be included with a group of guys like that.  And it’s humbling to think about how I came to consort with a group of guys like that.  I can’t help but think that I was just in the right place at the right time.  I just got lucky.  I know that if I ever offered any of them a ride in my caravan, they’d gladly accept, even if there were screaming kids occupying the other seats.  They’d maybe think that they got pretty lucky too.          






[1] Ironic that he would go on to make a living running down fly balls on the carpeted outfield of the Metrodome.

[2] I’m not entirely sure if the van was purchased in 1987 or not.  I presume not as we didn’t have a lot of money in those days, and likely couldn’t have afforded a brand-new vehicle the same year it was made.  Regardless, it was most certainly a 1987 Dodge Caravan, and that is the most important factor for this commentary.

[3] Probably not with me though.  I am by far the least memorable of the group.

[4] It involved some buddies, the van and the unfortunate demise of some garbage cans.  It was caught on tape, but can only be viewed via a VCR.

Tuesday, November 22, 2016

#PuckettPromise

I hereby promise a post soon. 

-Matt

Wednesday, September 21, 2016

#PuckettYear




                It is my pleasure to be the first entry in The Puckett Year blog.  The particularities and direction of our efforts are yet to be determined, but there is some significant background information helpful for any reader.  Basically, you’re going to need to know a little about who we are as writers, as well as who Kirby Puckett was.  If you don’t know about the latter, I’ll shed a tear and forgive the unawareness; but carry no expectations in regard to the authors' backgrounds, and appreciate your attention.  I’ll start with our mutual background.
                We’re a group of guys (most from Minnesota, but one Wisconsinite doing circles with us).  We attended St. John’s University (SJU) in Central Minnesota, graduating in 2005.  This bit of information is not only pertinent to our shared background and the origins of this blog, but also the reason we dare compare our storylines to the legendary Kirby Puckett.  SJU is a small liberal arts college founded by the Monks of St. John’s Abbey in 1857.  The place prides itself in not only supplying the academic components of learning, but also considerations of social justice, stewardship and leadership. The curriculum promotes values development, character construction, spiritual growth, emotional veracity, and personal integrity.  I was once told by a friend (and co-author) that SJU “is an A+ school for B+ students;” implying that some of us could have tried harder in high school.  Certainly, that generalization may be applied on a case-by-case basis, but the outcomes of its graduates seem widespread.  I cannot say enough about how impressed I am with my cohort and their accomplishments.  Undoubtedly, our alma mater lacks the recognition of the ivy leagues; but the impact SJU has on young men is quite remarkable, and seems to have stood the test of time.  For fear of insulting half our friends’ partners, I must also acknowledge the brilliance of the College of St. Benedict; the women’s counterpart to SJU and itself an impressive institution.   …Oh, did I fail to mention the “all dudes” nature of SJU?  Well, yeah…  that’s part of it too. 
                So that’s where the shared story starts for most of us; on the campus of an old Benedictine monastery, on almost 3000 acres of classic Minnesota terrain, littered with buildings on the National Register of Historic Places, and bound to a monastic learning environment underscoring effort and integrity paramount to academics.  Now you’ll have to forgive me if the foreground seems hollow or pretentious.  I assure you we were far from saints.  In fact, back then we were most likely ignorant to how the etchings of SJU’s wisdoms may become embedded canyons in our personal and professional development.  But such is the nature of youth, and after all, it’s trying hard that brings success.  I believe it is this emphasis on effort that ties our stories to Kirby…but first a little background on him.
                You would be hard-pressed to find a Minnesota man over 30 without a lasting imprint of Kirby Puckett.  As a youth, He grew up as a known underdog out of Chicago, joined the Twins in 1985, and quickly became legend as he swung his stick as well as any batter since Joe DiMaggio.  His most notable impressions include stellar performances in the Twins’ World Series Championships of 1987 and 1991.  I mean, really, 1991 was literally one of the best World Series of all time.  In game six, Kirby showed he could fly with a dramatic catch early in the game, and eventually hit a home run in the bottom of the eleventh inning to send the series to game seven.  Wow!  In those days, every person a young guy knew (in MN) was wearing Twins apparel, and Kirby was to blame.  Just take a look at this gem pulled from my mother's archives out of ’87.



                Kirby wore the number 34, hence the title and affiliation of our blog.  We write this as both a tribute and reflection as we engage our own 34.  Sadly, Puckett was also forced to retire at age 35 due to medical conditions; thus highlighting the importance one’s 34th year of life.  Certainly, you could read past the headlines of his glory days and find controversial tarnish in his legacy.  Nonetheless, our mission is to honor his days of brilliance as we echo our own bits of life experience through the parodies of his impressionable greatest achievements.  He was an underdog and reached his greatest potential through effort and mantras of "be the best you can be." He taught us that life takes practice, that you're going to face some setbacks, but persistence will be rewarded.  I think those are some of the same values that St. John's instilled in us.  So far, none of us have a World Series ring.  But I have seen my friends try hard, face adversities with persistence, and been rewarded for their efforts.

So here we go, into the 34th year…reflecting on the past, present and what may lie ahead.  Happy 34 to a fantastic group of people, and happy #PuckettYear .  “Touch ‘em all…”